Life isn’t unfair.
At a particular moment, life may seem unfair to you, but holistically life isn’t unfair to anybody.
Actually, a more accurate answer is, life doesn’t have any inherent sense of fairness. It just is unbiased, unaffected by our emotions and state. It’s our interpretation of life that makes it seem unfair.
If you ever feel like life is unfair to you, you are asking yourself the wrong question and you need to change it immediately if you want to grow.
Because thinking you have on control over it develops a sense of powerlessness. When you believe you are in control of your own destiny and the point in time where life would seem fair to is yet to come, you begin to hold yourself accountable for everything that happens in your life. You begin to grow.